Greetings again!
A life in the day of Tony, is quite apt for India. Let me give you a few impressions of life here.
I am now sleeping beneath a mosquito net, and for that I am thankful. At last I can sleep uninterrupted by those strange little creatures which hide from you, only to re-appear when you least likely to expect them. I wonder where they went to learn this form of torture?
Now it is getting seriously hot. Today, I am feeling it. Very heavy. Fortunately I have an overhead fan in my room and the circulating air works well. I have the windows open, and am thankful that I can manage without air conditioning, at least till this moment.
I shower before bed, as well as when I awake. I might have to have another during the day when it gets even hotter. Las Vegas, I will never complain of your summer weather ever again!
Let me tell you about the bathroom. In India, it seems to be all the same basic design. There is a room, mine is about 6′ X 7′, and contains a sink/wash basin, a toilet (mine is the sit-down type-Thank you Krishna. I have not learned how to use the traditional ‘hole in the floor’ type yet. Then in the corner you have the shower/taps.
There is no shower cubicle or shower room. The shower is in the toilet room. They are all together. In spa terms, it is like wet room. As you show, the water goes everywhere, and as the floor is either marble or similar it does not matter. You shower, walk about, go to the toilet, brush your teeth, whatever you want to do. Actually, I like it, because you have more room to maneuver.
In the UK I used a shower cubicle, where it was small I could not bend down very well. Indian style actually works quite well, but is very different. Oh, I forgot to mention that, for hot water, you switch on a water heater bolted to the wall, and it’s usually very small. However, I have always had sufficient water, even when the show has no water pressure, I then resort to the bucket (In India, when staying at a moderate hotel, they give you a bucket of hot water for washing yourself), and this also works out well, if you like to play in water.
One thing for sure, we in the West do waste water. With a bucket you do not. You simply take the bucket and use a small jug to pour the water over you. All I can say is that this works, and I enjoy playing with/in water.
And so, I awake at about 5:30 am and listen to the birds singing. I arise at about 6-6:30am and go get my hot water to drink and start the digestive system working. I have started to put some salt in the water, as I was recently reminded by a friend (a chemist) that the body is electrical and saline water help the synapse fire, and anything else electrical, as saline water is a good conductor of electricity.
As I am going through my ablution processes, I hear the hawkers crying out there offerings. They ride their tricycles (with like a flatbed/cargo area at the rear) and they sell vegetables, fruits, they collect garbage, they sell milk, and other stuff I have not yet determined what they are. The various calls of these vendors/hawkers remind me of the various birds and their unique call.
Then the cleaning lady comes in and sweeps/washes the floor. She takes my dirty laundry and washes it outside in the rear of the property, where she soaps it all and then beats the sh…. out of it. So far my clothes are standing up it well enough. They dry on the clothes line and smell really good by the evening.
I pay my respects to my neighbors, and leave for breakfast at about 8:30am. Outside there is usually a great big cow standing there looking at me. We exchange Namaste’s and I wonder what the cow is feeling/thinking. Sometimes there are several cows just milling about. Today a cow decided to sleep on a pile of sand that just appeared and I feel it is to be used for building, as next to it is a stack of bricks.
The crow is usually on the street lamp outside the gate, and we exchange ‘caws.’ Their markings are very different to what is seen in the USA on the West coast. Here they are smaller, with a grey collar that covers the shoulders.
I walk out of the gate and turn left. At the ‘T’ junction a few yards on, I look at the field on the other side of the road where cricket is played (A British game that may have been the predecessor to baseball) I stop at the junction to see what the traffic situation is like. It usually is busy with walkers, bicycles, tricycle rickshaws, motorbikes, scooters and cars, apart from a few dogs which seem to live in the area, and of course the holy cows.
I make a right and walk perhaps 50-75 yards, and I arrive at the back door to the school complex. The school building accommodates over a thousand children attending Jiva School. They all have uniforms and look so good. They are well disciplined and ever so polite. “Good Morning, Sir,” they say to me without any prompt.
I walk to the canteen and eat my breakfast, which is usually wheat grains cooked in milk, poha (rice dish), papaya, watermelon, chai, and sometime coconut water. I usually eat the fruit later, and sometimes I leave the wheat/milk, as sometimes my system does not do well on that. There is a school of thought that milk does not do us any good after age 3 or so, and that we are the only mammals that continue to imbibe milk. I happen to agree, with a caveat. If milk is prepared ayurvedically, I believe the effects can become beneficial. For instance, there is a remedy (Ayurvedically) for the negative affects of coffee, which usually has the effect of suppressing the immune system as does all forms of caffeine.
So I am just learning and one day I will really know. Know what you may ask? I do not know what it is that I may know, or even that I may know that I know. All I know is that in the past I did not know that I did not know.
I spend my day doing what I can to be of assistance to the overall vision of Jiva ayurveda, which is the same as all Ayurveda practitioners and schools - to promote the knowledge and understanding of Ayurveda. It is indeed a fascinating science. It seems that I may have missed my vocation, as, if I were younger, I would have gone to Ayurveda School.
In fact I nearly did. When Angelia registered with Dr. Jay Apte of the Ayurveda Institute of America in Foster City/Los Angeles to become an Ayurvedic Practitioner, I was strongly tempted, but, alas, it was not possible at that time. Dr. Jay Apte is an extremely loving and compassionate lady, and if anyone wants her number just ask me.
I meet patients at breakfast, lunch and dinner and this is the social highlight of the day. After dinner I may watch HBO for awhile, but usually go to my room at a round 8pm and I sit in my ‘cave’ praying, chanting, seeking out mosquitoes, writing and reading. This is a good safe environment for me to do this.
I have now met the Guru, Shri Satya Narayan who runs the Jiva ashram in Vrindavan. He has just returned from lecturing in the USA, and will be returning in June to the East coast. We have spent time together discussing God, service, ego, suffering, and more. I love our time together, and it seems that I do not have to go in search of someone like him. He found me. Which is true, as I was entering the premises as he was leaving and we ‘bumped’ in to each other. I guess we found each other. He is a prolific reader, and we discussed some books. His life work to study the Indian scriptures and translate them in to English.
I have decided to return to the USA earlier, and will therefore be arriving in Las Vegas on 21/July. After a few days in Pahrump, I will go to California, which is calling/beckoning me. In June I am going to visit my older brother in Israel for a few weeks before I start a new life in California.
In order to change the dates of my ticket I had to go to Delhi and deal with them directly. Fortunately, I was able to make the necessary changes. I started off yesterday at 9am, when the taxi picked me up. The traffic was pretty bad (rush hour) and I was able to see the landscape of humanity in all its forms, going about their business. It still amazes me that when a driver changes direction they just do it, and few look first. This is why they use the horn so much. They just let you know they are coming ready or not, or so it would appear to me.
The driver was very good, and did not take any chances, or should I say any more chances than what is regarded as normal, which means anything. In Delhi we passed India Gate, which is an arch, similar to Marble Arch in the UK, Arc de Triumph in France, except this was quite ornate.
We arrived at the offices of Jet Airways. After the necessary formalities, they asked me to pay for the date change and quoted the amount in US Dollars, just like they did over the phone when I checked with them. I offered them US Dollars, and was told that they could only accept Indian Rupees. OK, “Where do I change money?” I asked. They did not know. They sent someone to look for a bank. He came back and said there was the Punjab National Bank across the road.
I went to the road. It was impossible to pass, and I really did not feel like suicide. Someone shouted to me that there was a subway under the road. I dashed and descended the steps, into another twilight world of buskers (those who sing/play music for money), vendors, with their wares on the floor, and suspicious looking people who did little to imbue trust. The place was dirty and I did not feel comfortable. I clutched my bag and was as careful as I could be as I dashed to the surface in search of the bank.
I found a German bank that looked really posh. However, they did not exchange money. Next door, there was a bank that looked like a back street market of dubious quality food. The sign said Punjab….This was it. The entrance was a half closed gate with ropes and obstructions that caused me to crouch and twist to get in. Was this a bank or what? I entered and what I saw amazed me.
It was like stepping back in time 100 years, including the 100 year old cobwebs and dust. The place was so well worn and old. There was a security man with a shotgun. My God, I thought. If there was a need to use it, in such close quarters with so many people crowded, such a blast would kill many. Not a good choice of weapon for those circumstances. I was directed to go up upstairs. On arrival on the next floor, there was an old sign hanging at an angle indicating the exchange department. I approached, and entered a dingy little cubicle, where the single man was on the phone.
After what seemed like an eternity, he asked me what I wanted, and we proceeded to talk money exchange. I filled out forms, he filled out forms, I gave him my passport, he wanted my address and phone number, but not my blood type(Humor). Then he took my travelers cheques and disappeared. I stood up and watched him enter a room at the far end of the building.
After another eternity he returned with more papers. He directed someone to take me to the cashier with all the papers. By now I have my passport back. We stood at the cashiers cubicle. It was empty. The cashier was next door. I indicated I was in a hurry and he acknowledged me, but did not budge. Then after a while he moved back in to his office and looked through all the paperwork. Finally, I received the Rupee equivalent to my US Dollars.
Clutching my bag and everything else, I eased past the shotgun man, out into the street, down through the subway passage and back to Jet Airways. The deed is done, and I find the taxi and “Back to Faridabad,” I shout, above the din of the traffic in this very busy part of Delhi. We make it out of town without mishap. He is a good driver. No cows, no obstructions.
Then the taxi man asks me if I want to see the Lotus temple. “Thank you, but no,” I respond. I “I want to go back to Faridabad immediately,” I add. It is hot, there are 50 million people out there, and I might have to go to the toilet. No, Faridabad it is. Within the hour we are back to the safe haven of the clinic and I go and have lunch.
When I return to India, I will have a better idea of what to do and when to be here. I ought to go to the Himalayas right now, as it is cooler there, but I do not have the energy right now, although I may do it next month. I would really like to see Haridwar, Rishikesh, Gangotri, and just be in the mountains. We will see.
In the meantime, I am getting myself balanced and releasing any psycho-emotional limitations that I have been holding on to. This entire visit has been absolutely wonderful. I love India, and will be back. The people I have met are the most wonderful, the most courteous and friendly (in fact loving) people you would want to meet. This journey is a life unto itself. I am thankful I had the courage to come and fulfill a dream.
And this has been a life in the day of yours truly, here in India. Oops, not quite, Guruji is giving a lecture on the soul and he has asked me if I would like to attend. Of course, and so my day continues today with more life packed into it. See you later.
With Love from India
Tony/Anthony
The monkeys have arrived. I saw 4 of them yesterday in the school grounds. Another story.